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Act of Green

Do you throw your gum out the window? Do you keep the water running while you brush your teeth? Do you still use paper/plastic grocery bags vs. bringing your own? Do you keep all of your appliances (coffee maker, toaster) plugged in while you leave the house for the day? Keep your AC pumping while not home? Throw your plastics/cans away with all other trash (aka: don’t recycle)? Drive alone most of the time (aka- don’t carpool)? Use non eco-friendly light bulbs?

Have you noticed/Did you know:

  1. Severity of storms increasing? My prayers and thoughts go out to those in the Midwest that were pounded with the deadly and violent tornadoes and heavy snow. An EF-4 tornado? Need I name the others?
  2. Litter in the ocean when swimming or on the beach when you lie your towel down? Only 7% plastic bags are actually recycled- where does the rest go? http://www.articlesbase.com/travel-articles/what-will-happen-if-you-do-not-recycle-plastics-980146.html
  3. 22% of total electricity drawn from the grid each year comes from the lighting of residential and businesses. Did you know that that is actually enough energy to  power 100 coal plants? Just for lighting! All that burning fuel goes where? http://www.eco-friendly-emporium.com/eco-friendly-light-bulbs.html

Friends, the list can go on and on- these are just a few examples. We all, in our own comfortable ways, contribute to the destruction of our planet or to the deterioration of our natural resources.  I am not a green freak by any means, nor have I jumped on the global warming band wagon. I am however, astonished when I actually take a minute out of my day to pay attention to statistics like this.

Because of my lack of presence in our last month, Environment Month, I am kick starting our last month of our march, Contribution with a combined mission. We are going to give back while simultaneously being conscientious of our environment and the surroundings in which we live in by making subtle changes that can make a tremendous difference.

What are realistic habits, changes and/or additions to your lifestyle that you would be willing to change in order to reduce your carbon footprint that way we can leave our children, grandchildren and so on with a place that is safe to breathe and live?

Do you not buy into any of this, at all? Is it all a crock of crap? Why?

Living Curious!

Breezie

A New Level of Maturation: Money Matters

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Happy Monday!

What a weekend. I was fortunate to have two of my best friends in town, great conversations, lots of laughing, shopping, and best of all, tons of eating. :) A nice distraction given the recent loss to our family. Always sad to see everyone leave, but in essence of “Marching On” it’s time to move forward, appreciate the past, while living in the present, but onward we go.  

So, with further ado and before we totally miss the boat on our Financial month, which I know just sounds so exciting and juicy to all of you, I want to get a relevant post in. That way I haven’t entirely dropped the ball on 2 months of our March.  Plus, I’m feeling curious!

I chose Financial to be a topic in our March not only because it currently plays such a significant and applicable role in our society, but because I really wanted to make learning about ways to save and organize my finances a priority in this new year. As I start to hit adulthood, yes, at 27… :) thinking about spending, saving and all that falls under financial responsibilities has become more imperative to me. And really, based off of the general consensus that my 20-30 something’s network has given me, we’re all pretty much on the same page.

Whether it is starting to think about buying a home, getting married, having children, re-decorating the bathroom, buying a new car or for those choosing another path, organizing finances for your next trip to Ibiza, Costa Rica, guys trip/girls trip, that works too. Either way, most have come to the realization that it takes sacrifice in order to do so. 

It goes without needing to be said, but I know some of you right now are probably thinking that you have always paid your way through and maybe you’ve needed to be financially organized from a young age, so my hats off to you. I on the other hand, am starting to care about all of this now and as part of this march I swore to be candid, open and willing to make myself vulnerable in order to learn.

I’m learning that money matters and the importance of saving. Plus, climbing the corporate ladder and working for your money really teaches you the value in it and what it takes to earn it. I guess, theoretically making you think twice before your next purchase.  

My objective here is not to live a more frugal life, but to live a more cognizant life.   

In what areas do you spend, save or have you cut back? How do you and your families prioritize? When you were at the brink of maturation in this area, where would you have focused on and in what areas would you scale back? What is the right percentage out of your paycheck to save? Thoughts on 401K’s? Were you taught the importance of saving and that money matters at a young age? If so, do you think that made a difference?

This post isn’t very informative, I know. And for those of you that know me, I know you wouldn’t want financial advice from me anyway. You want the Louboutin’s or a random weekend in Vegas? “Sure, I think you should go or get 2!” HeHe :)

Living curious and learning…

B

March On!

Readers, participants, friends, colleagues, and family members hello and welcome to 2012!

What an amazing 2011! I hope that you all rounded out the end of the year with a smile on your face, well until the 9th white elephant give under $20 you had to buy :) , but ultimately ready to move forward and conquer bigger and more ambitious goals in the new year.   

So, with full acknowledgment I know I have been majorly slacking in my blogging. I’m slightly bummed that I fell victim to exactly what I was hoping I wouldn’t do and that is to not finish what I started. We skipped a month- Recreational. Which would have been totally fun to write about during the holidays and all of the social activities, catering and hosting  I’m sure we were all attending and doing. However, I assure you I wasn’t laying on the couch over-indulging on peanut butter cookies, pie and eggnog. Ok, well maybe at times, but that was after I accepted a promotion in my career.

No excuses. I should have managed my time better and figured out how to balance all of it, but my focus in December was solely on landing what I had been working so hard for. With little time to sleep in between prepping for interviews, following up, working day-day, family and all of the holiday travel, the month of December was a tough one. Nevertheless, I’m sure you all made it through without your weekly March to Mastery brief. But, I know you are all now more ready than ever to continue on our path of curiosity and growth. 

As we approach the end of January, I’m sure most of us have set our yearly, personal, financial, professional, and relational goals, right? With that said, I want to make today’s lesson simple and short, it’s to March On.

Meaning, move forward. Lets learn from the past, live in the present but move forward on issues you can’t control. No dwelling on 2011, what you could have done, what you should’ve said or what you meant to do. Instead, let’s appreciate what you did do and the memories that you do have and prepare for more and new. Not to mistake, the ways in which you could’ve done something different, but on how you can get better… you know? Thinking forward down the pipeline on ways to grow.

To speak candidly, this all stems from the fact that I suddenly lost my grandfather this morning and am in the coping stage where I am trying to make sense of everything. A very natural process, but one that I want to recognize and draw the parallels of how it all relates to our march. What better way to get the ball rolling again?

Grieving is important, yes. However, dwelling and sulking is not, I want to enjoy and remember the great moments, the exceptional memories, having no regrets and to “Saving our Strength for things in life that we can control.”

We all go through things in life, whether it’s work related, family related, personal struggle, financially, socially, or an intimate relationship that we can’t control and that we find eventually ends up consuming us…. why? Why do we do that to ourselves?

Today’s post is short, heartfelt and just a way to reach out and touch all of you. We will pick up soon, March On!

Have a great weekend, poor a little of your drink out and get out there and live curious!

To Grandpa Mike…

Breezie

 

 

Are You A Domestic Goddess?

Hello there readers and marchers. I apologize for the lack in leadership and accountability on my part throughout this last month and unfortunately my lovely boyfriend has reaped even more of the consequences due to my busy schedule.

The fact is, is that this month (started November 1st) he is supposed to be coming home to a domestic goddess (Domestication Month). You know, coming home from work to a meal on the table, laundry folded, a test drive baking session, like hmmm…. maybe a homemade berry cobbler (his favorite), or even a massage table and oils laying out ready for him to plop on after a long day of work and for me to give him that hour long back rub that I’ve been promising for 3 years? Haha ok- well maybe that is extreme, but I am at least suppose to be challenging myself to try different things in that category, poor guy. Anyway, just like him, the rest of you men and/or women out there were supposed to be getting a taste of domestication this month as well. However, this doesn’t mean that the ball has completely dropped.

We are only 21 days into the month with 9 days left to go. Some of you may see this as not enough time, but I guarantee you any slight bit of domestication you can whoop up in the next 9 days will be greatly appreciated, by either you or the receiver.  Think- what better week to end it with a bang than on one that you will already be cooking on? Hehe J

For starters, let’s start with what a domestic goddess is…

A domestic goddess is a woman who keeps her home ordered, clean, uncluttered and tastefully decorated.  In addition, she is an ace in the kitchen, a brilliant baker, ingenious cook and exceptional entertainer.  As if this is not enough, a domestic goddess always looks beautiful and sexy.  She can work in the garden, put up shelves in the house, carry her partner’s golf clubs, be a fabulous mother and a nymphomaniac vamp in the bedroom (giggle). 

While the ideal domestic goddess is a combination of the five goddesses I mention below, the reality is that most of us are stronger in some areas and weaker in others.  We need to work hard to develop the areas we are weak in, so that we can be a dutiful and loving partner, that is highly valued by our hardworking spouses and envied by his friends.

With that said, I think it is important and a fun exercise to understand which goddess traits we portray. Take a look at the list below of qualities from four Greek goddesses and one Asian goddess, which are combined to create a modern domestic goddess, as a domestic goddess has to be an all-round performer in all aspects of the home. Being only one of them is not enough to qualify you as a domestic goddess. But, honestly in my opinion portraying at least one of them puts you off to a good start.

Goddesses

Hestia

Hestia is the ultimate earth mother and is the Greek goddess of the hearth.  She was kind and nurturing, had really well-developed maternal instincts and was amazing at cooking and baking.

Artemis

Artemis was the Greek goddess of hunting, the wilderness and wild animals. She was also the goddess of childhood and proctectress of girls up until they got married.

Aphrodite

Aphrodite was the Greek goddess of love.  Her two domains where she excelled was in the bedroom and surprisingly, the garden.

Kuan Yin

Kuan Yin is the Buddhist goddess of mercy, compassion and understanding.

Penelope

Penelope was a weaver and the most creative of all the Greek goddesses.  She was the wife of Odysseus and waited loyally and faithfully for over 20 years for him to return.

Ladies- which of the following goddess do you think you most resemble and which one do you think you have the most work to do in order to achieve that title? For you gentlemen, I don’t want to alienate you from being a goddess, so if you had to choose which one would you fall under? And for those of you that don’t consider yourself ever to take part in being a goddess, which goddess traits do you value most and want implemented into your home?

If they seem vague, I’m curious to know how you interpret what each of the goddesses qualities stand mean or relate to your lifestyle.

As part of our journey in our March to Mastery we have set out to become more well rounded individuals and have consciously decided to make decisions to invest in areas that we may be more deficient in or in areas that strike our curiosity to continuously challenge ourselves and mature as people.  We can become a Jill or Jack of all trades, handy with a hammer, an iron, and a spade. We can serve our partner, making their happiness our mission, their pleasure our pleasure. 

We are domestic goddesses, we can do it all. Well at least one day we’ll be domestic goddesses.

The journey begins….

Living Curious!

Bre

What Is Your Word?

My day started off like this: 3 shots of anesthesia, some drilling, grinding, scraping, and molding, followed by a swollen face, a sore mouth, a little drool (ok- a lot! Ha) and a bit of inspiration.

The dentist you might guess? Are you having flash backs of being tilted back in the dentist chair underneath the florescent light?

You’re right! However, you are probably wondering where the bit about inspiration came from because seriously when have you ever left the dentist’s office after getting 3 deep cavities filled, feeling in any way, shape- or- form stimulated or motivated?

Haha- well I guess you could be motivated to lay off the candy and donuts. J

Anyway, the inspiration came from watching the movie Eat Pray Love while getting those cavities filled. Like most of you, I’ve already seen the movie, but sometimes it just takes that little token of a refresher to spark a deeper meaning. It wasn’t necessarily Julia’s urge for spaghetti, wine or James Franco, it was her search to find deeper meaning and to gain a truer understanding of who she is and what she wants that evoked a real reaction and/or emotion within me. And truth be told, as hard as it was to really be distracted with all of the drilling going on, some sort of feeling hit me and plugged me with the inspiration I was looking for to jump into Spirituality month.

As you all know, I haven’t been very active this month due to a very busy schedule, traveling, weddings, friends/boyfriend, birthdays, lack of inspiration and a numerous amount of other different reasons I could come up with that have held me back from whole heartedly diving into our Spirituality month. That being said and all excuses aside, I guess drilling into my tooth and spaghetti served some sort of greater purpose today. J

Our spiritual health is as important as physical, mental, emotional and even our dental health. In some ways it’s more important because spirituality affects our emotions, thoughts and physical energy. When we are spiritually healthy, we feel balanced from the inside out and we connect to our higher self and operate from a place of peace, wisdom, and intuitive knowing. We know what foods to eat, when to work and when to rest, how much exercise our body needs, what direction to take our life in, how to rise above petty concerns and judgments, and most importantly, how to open our hearts to unconditional love and forgiveness.

According to John English, a behavioral specialist and life coach, spiritual health and wellness requires a commitment by a person to undertake a journey for inner understanding, to question a purpose in life, and to answer “Who am I?”

Spiritual belief plays a major part in the journey of self-discovery because of the relationship forged between self and the higher power. Spiritual belief helps reach beyond the normal limitations of being human, life and death without purpose. Spiritual belief allows people to view the impossible as possible.

This journey may take shape through prayer, meditation, seminars, and interactions with others to understand one’s journey.

As we’ve gone through our March learning ways to master a deeper sense of self, it is important to note that true spirituality as in any other lesson that we’ve learned and are working on applying is a journey in itself that does not occur instantaneously. It continuously evolves.

Our friend John English talks about how people with spiritual health emanate happiness, hope and belief and that with such positive emotions it can have a healing impact to the body, mind and heart. These positive emanations help the other parts of self, mind, body, and emotions to flow together in harmonic balance.

Enough said to spark your curiosity?

For starters, let’s make the commitment that Mr. English recommends and take our journey deeper to gain a stronger inner understanding by answering the question “Who am I?”

For example, in the movie Eat Pray Love Julia is asked, “What is your word?”

She starts describing, “a daughter, a writer…”

She is soon quickly interrupted by someone saying, “NO, not what do you do?, WHO ARE YOU?”

Often times we label ourselves internally and externally by what we do for a living, by what religion we belong to, or who we’re in a relationship with, but fail to even think about who we truly are or what we are about.

So, who are you? Are you- “the person that is in search of the word?” “Quirky?” “Loving?” Is it too much to ask to limit it into one word? If it is difficult, which it is for me- I’ve def gotta think about this one a little longer, but hopefully that is what this month will provide.

Stay curious my friends…

LC!

Breezie

Quote of the Day

“Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength, mastering yourself is true power.”

~ Lao-Tzu

Spirituality- Discovering a Deeper Sense of Self

The term “spirituality” can be a confusing term. When you hear the word “spirituality”, what is the first thought that comes to mind?

For most, I would say that religion is the first thought that comes to mind. At least it used to be for me. However, while religion is an aspect of spirituality, spirituality is not an aspect of religion.

Those who speak of spirituality outside of religion often define themselves as “spiritual but not religious” and generally believe in the existence of different “spiritual paths,” emphasizing the importance of finding one’s own individual path to spirituality. According to one poll, about 24% of the United States population identifies itself as “spiritual but not religious.”

While the definition of spirituality is different for everyone, here are some common themes associated with spirituality:

  • The idea of a process or journey of self-discovery and of learning not only who you are, but who you want to be.
  • The challenge of reaching beyond your current limits. This can include keeping an open mind, questioning current beliefs, or trying to better understand others’ beliefs.
  • A connectedness to yourself and to others. Spirituality is personal, but it is also rooted in being connected with others and with the world around you. This connection can facilitate you finding “your place in the world.”
  • Meaning, purpose, and direction. Spirituality, while it doesn’t necessarily solve or reach conclusions, often embraces the concept of searching and moving forward in the direction of meaning, purpose, and direction for your life.
  • A higher power, whether rooted in a religion, nature, or some kind of unknown essence.

Meaning, purpose, direction, self-discovery, challenging ourselves beyond our limits and being the best we can be? Sounds like March to Mastery in a nutshell, right?

I chose “Spirituality” as a category to explore as part of our March to Mastery journey because I am part of that 24% that considers myself “spiritual but not religious” and want to further investigate the many spiritual paths that are out there. Raised, baptized and confirmed a Catholic, my belief systems were imbedded in me from a kid. As I’ve matured, been exposed to different cultures and types of people I have started to develop my own opinions and in that have started to question organized religion, which has undoubtedly sparked my curiosity to further explore.  

Additionally, Spirituality Month falls strategically in the middle of our year long march and is positioned this way because I feel that the exercises, goals, and obstacles that we have set out to do and have accomplished in the last five months have really prepped us by getting us out of our comfort zones, taught us extraordinary lessons about our true selves, and have built inner self-confidence, therefore, giving us a solid understanding or our minds, bodies, egos and personalities.  

My hopes for this month are to steer clear from sparking any sort of religious debates or throwing out to many opinions about the pros and cons of different belief systems. My goal is to really just learn, explore and live curious as always. Hey and maybe end up with a new found passion or a deeper connection. :)

Spirituality aims both at inner growth and outward manifestations of this growth. Love and/or compassion are often described as the mainstay of spiritual development.

Since we’ve made transformation the norm about everything else we do, then spiritual transformation should fall into place as an extension of where life has been headed all along. While still remaining who you are, you can bring about a quantum leap in your awareness, and the sign that the leap is real will be some emergent property you have never experienced in the past.

Why should we develop our spirituality?

Spirituality can offer many benefits to our life, both emotionally and physically. Developing our spiritual life can give us a sense of purpose and help us figure out where we are most passionate in our professional, social, and personal lives. Some studies show that positive beliefs can be comforting and can improve our health. People who have taken time to develop their spiritual life are also likely to better understand their needs.

When we discover this deeper sense of self we are freed from many of the fears that plague us unnecessarily. We discover a greater inner peace, an inner security that does not depend upon events or circumstances in the world around. As a result we become less self-centered, less needy of the other’s approval or recognition, less needy of collecting possessions and social status, and become happier, healthier and more loving people. In many spiritual teachings this is called “self-liberation”.

Til next time… 

Living Curious,

Breezie

When Is The Right Time?

Good afternoon Intellectual Marchers!

As this month has so quickly past, Summer has ended and Fall has arrived, Brain Types have been distributed, strengths have been learned and confidence has been built, it is now time to capitalize on our knowledge. But, when is the right time?

Before taking action on a pending task, have you ever found yourself saying “I have to get ______ done first?” I’m talking about big action, the type of action that is linked with a little fear. Say like, pitching for a promotion, paying off bills, proposing to your Sig.O, working out, and/or saving money? I mean, the list can go on and on… We always have an excuse as to why NOW isn’t the right time to take action or why we have to do “X” before we can accomplish “Y”.

Below I’ve attached an article that one of our marchers sent over to me at the beginning of the week which sparked my inspiration for this post. As you’ll see, the article so effortlessly encourages us to take action, in addition to enlightening us with a perspective that our subconscious is probably aware of, but our conscious mind is unaware of.

One of the solutions that this article offers to being a “perfectionist and/or procrastinator” fits right along the lines of our “Getting Things Done” philosophy that we touched on last month. Remember David Allen’s technique was to simply write down our list of projects, followed by specific next steps and plan of action to help us finish what we have on our to-do lists?  That being said, that part of Jessica’s article will be easy for us to accomplish because we already have the practice. The difficult part will be for us will be to step out of our comfort zones and actually take action.

These ideas that we need to have new gym clothes before we can start working out or we need to have the perfect presentation together before we can pitch a job are all just excuses in our heads to let ourselves off the hook or to buy time because we are actually afraid to take that leap.

Now is the right time guys, let’s look past our fears, step up and take action!!

To wrap up Intellectual month, keep this post in mind when going out and conquering whatever it is you are setting out to achieve. I think that a fundamental part of being an intellectual, given that we all have different ideas of what intellectual is, is to bring to fruition to what is sitting in our heads. Let’s use this knowledge for something great versus just letting it idly sit.   

Hopefully knowing your brain type and the brain types of those around you can give you the confidence to make that next move that you’ve been meaning to do.

Living Curious~

Breezie

DROP DEAD DIVA… What is Perfection?
by Jessica Sitomer

Imagine being a model like Deb, in a world where perfection is so important, dying in a car crash, and waking up as Jane, a smart, overweight lawyer, who in a “Perfectionist’s” eyes would be viewed as a “work-in-progress.”

There are so many “perfection blocks” in our industry. Actors who won’t meet casting directors until they have the “perfect” headshot, wasting months deciding which of their shots could be THE ONE. Writers who re-write and re-write and re-write, until they see “their show” on TV, written by someone with a similar idea. And then there are people whose perfectionism with their reels, resumes, portfolios, networking or interview skills, keeps them stuck. I write a book on all of the opportunities clients passed up because of procrastination in the name of perfection.

Lately, I’ve been speaking with lots of people who say that they can’t take action because… “I have to get ______ done first.”

Don’t get me wrong, I believe in preparation, and I also believe there is such a thing as being too prepared. Being too prepared is when you have enough to handle yourself professionally, but fear is stopping you from taking action, so you convince yourself “it” has to be perfect.

Things don’t have to be perfect. You’re never going to be 100% ready. IS AN ARTIST’S WORK EVER REALLY DONE?

So, let go of the need for perfection, and GO FOR IT! Move forward on what you really want! See what happens, what will develop, because ACTION ALWAYS LEADS TO SOMETHING…

Start by making a list of all of your current ongoing projects; mentor requests, reels, class/equipment studies, editing a project, pursuing your career, writing a script, starting a new business/project, etc.

Write down “why” it’s not or you are not ready. What more needs to be “perfect”?

Take one action to move you forward despite the lack of perfection.

TRY IT! I know it’s a different way of doing things, but it just might be fun! It’s called flying by the seat of your pants. Kind of like waking up in someone else’s body and having to figure out your life.

What Did You Learn About Your Personality Type?

Who are you and why do you do what you do?

Over the last few years I have been fortunate to be in the presence of a mentor who has thoroughly studied the Myers-Briggs brain typing philosophy, exposing me to one on one coaching, which has taught me the benefits of taking assessments like the one I posted last week. For example, as he would say, “when you know you have certain strengths, you walk, talk and act differently (more confidently) than when you only think you have them”.

I say this because I feel as though, if we truly understand these benefits then learning it would make much more sense. Imagine how knowing the following could help you in so many different areas:

  • Who in history was wired just like you (knowing this you can then read about this person and learn from their experiences and successes)
  • What you are like in a business environment and what careers you have a natural advantage in
  • What your buying style is and how that impacts your buying decisions
  • What it’s like to be a child with your particular Brain Type and how best be a parent to that profile
  • How you learn and how well you might do in school
  • What you might look for in a partner in romance (who your sign is compatible with)
  • How your spirituality may impact your life
  • What sports you have a natural gift for and should consider (if you haven’t already)
  • How you can best manage your weight
  • Some general tips on balancing your behavior

Personally, understanding my brain type has helped me flourish in many areas. Knowing the core giftedness of an ESFJ has given me additional confidence and determination. I encourage all of you to take the assessments and start doing some more research on it. Those of you who are extremely interested and want to take it a little bit further let me know and I can offer some contact info for someone who can really break these types down for you.

According to the mentor of mine that I mention, “the bottom-line is that many people “think” they have certain natural, inborn skills, but when you can show them that they truly have them, they go “from thinking to knowing” and that is huge”.

I’ve made a chart below that shows the different personality/brain types of the March to Mastery readers that responded after taking the assessment I posted last week that I thought would be interesting. I’m not sure what it exactly says or means, but I’m curious now! Additionally, you’ll see a chart that has the sixteen types labeled by a characteristic/trait. It doesn’t necessarily mean that that word is the exact description of the type, it’s just a generalization.

The Sixteen Types

March to Mastery Readers Breakdown

The below table organizing the sixteen types was created by Bre Pursley using the readers that tune in

(Based off of 42 marchers)…

ISTJ
11%

ISFJ
7%

INFJ
2%

INTJ
7%

ISTP
10%

ISFP
4%

INFP
6%

INTP
3%

ESTP
7%

ESFP
12%

ENFP
4%

ENTP
2%

ESTJ
9%

ESFJ
12%

ENFJ
2%

ENTJ
2%

The personality/brain types listed above and below are hyperlinked, so you can click through to their Wikipedia page to learn more.

ISTJ

ISFJ

INFJ

INTJ

Inspector

Protector

Counselor

Mastermind

ISTP

ISFP

INFP

INTP

Crafter

Composer

Healer

Architect

ESTP

ESFP

ENFP

ENTP

Promoter

Performer

Champion

Inventor

ESTJ

ESFJ

ENFJ

ENTJ

Supervisor

Provider

Teacher

Fieldmarshal

From the looks of it, a high percentage of my readers are either Performers or Providers and trailing a close second looks like Supervisors or Inspectors. Hmmm….

Thank you all for tuning in and for participating! YEAH- we’re all learning so much!

Keep living curious marchers!

Breezie

What Is Your Personality Type?

Have you ever thought about how it would be if you knew and understood what your personality type was and how it could help you work better with others, in addition to helping you manage your own work?

Over the past week I have been examining my own personality type by taking a few different tests and questionnaires. These assessments are designed to measure psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions.

The original developer of this personality test was a man named Carl Jung. He proposed the existence of two dichotomous pairs of cognitive functions:

  • The “rational” (judging) functions: thinking and feeling
  • The “irrational” (perceiving) functions: sensing and intuition

However, a woman by the name of Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter, Isabel Briggs Myers learned from Jung’s concepts and developed their own theory. According to Wikipedia the women began creating their assessments during World War II, believing that knowledge of personality preferences would help women who were entering the industrial workforce for the first time to identify the sort of war-time jobs where they would be “most comfortable and effective”. The initial questionnaire grew into the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, which was first published in 1962.

The MBTI sorts some of these psychological differences into four opposite pairs, or dichotomies, resulting in 16 possible psychological types. None of these types are better or worse, however, Briggs and Myers theorized that individuals naturally prefer one overall combination of type differences. In the same way that writing with the left hand is hard work for a right-hander, so people tend to find using their opposite psychological preferences more difficult, even if they can become more proficient (and therefore behaviorally flexible) with practice and development.

The 16 types are typically referred to by an abbreviation of four letters—the initial letters of each of their four type preferences (except in the case of intuition, which uses the abbreviation N to distinguish it from Introversion). For instance my type is:

  • ESFJ: extraversion (E), sensing (S), feeling (F), judgment (J)

And so on for all 16 possible type combinations (see the below chart for a visual)

Dichotomies

Extraversion (E) -

(I) Introversion

Sensing (S) -

(N) Intuition

Thinking (T) -

(F) Feeling

Judgment (J) -

(P) Perception

Strike your interest?

So, what do these abbreviated letters mean? Well, given that there is an enormous amount of research on the different dichotomies, I’ve complied data from Wikipedia and from the Myers and Briggs website, two sources that I think break this complex information down for us best. Below you will find your first assessment-

Extraversion/Introversion (E/I)

The first pair of psychological preferences is Extraversion and Introversion. Where do you put your attention and get your energy? Do you like to spend time in the outer wold of people and things (Extraversion), or in your inner world of ideas and images (Introversion)?

Extraversion (E)
I like getting my energy from active involvement in events and having a lot of different activities. I’m excited when I’m around people and I like to energize other people. I like moving into action and making things happen. I generally feel at home in the world. I often understand a problem better when I can talk out loud about it and hear what others have to say.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I am seen as “outgoing” or as a “people person.”
  • I feel comfortable in groups and like working in them.
  • I have a wide range of friends and know lots of people.
  • I sometimes jump too quickly into an activity and don’t allow enough time to think it over.
  • Before I start a project, I sometimes forget to stop and get clear on what I want to do and why.

Introversion (I)
I like getting my energy from dealing with the ideas, pictures, memories, and reactions that are inside my head, in my inner world. I often prefer doing things alone or with one or two people I feel comfortable with. I take time to reflect so that I have a clear idea of what I’ll be doing when I decide to act. Ideas are almost solid things for me. Sometimes I like the idea of something better than the real thing.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I am seen as “reflective” or “reserved.”
  • I feel comfortable being alone and like things I can do on my own.
  • I prefer to know just a few people well.
  • I sometimes spend too much time reflecting and don’t move into action quickly enough.
  • I sometimes forget to check with the outside world to see if my ideas really fit the experience.

The second pair of psychological preferences is Sensing and Intuition. Do you pay more attention to information that comes in through your five senses (Sensing), or do you pay more attention to the patterns and possibilities that you see in the information you receive (Intuition)?

Sensing (S)
Paying attention to physical reality, what I see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. I’m concerned with what is actual, present, current, and real. I notice facts and I remember details that are important to me. I like to see the practical use of things and learn best when I see how to use what I’m learning. Experience speaks to me louder than words.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I remember events as snapshots of what actually happened.
  • I solve problems by working through facts until I understand the problem.
  • I am pragmatic and look to the “bottom line.”
  • I start with facts and then form a big picture.
  • I trust experience first and trust words and symbols less.
  • Sometimes I pay so much attention to facts, either present or past, that I miss new possibilities.

Intuition (N)
Paying the most attention to impressions or the meaning and patterns of the information I get. I would rather learn by thinking a problem through than by hands-on experience. I’m interested in new things and what might be possible, so that I think more about the future than the past. I like to work with symbols or abstract theories, even if I don’t know how I will use them. I remember events more as an impression of what it was like than as actual facts or details of what happened.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I remember events by what I read “between the lines” about their meaning.
  • I solve problems by leaping between different ideas and possibilities.
  • I am interested in doing things that are new and different.
  • I like to see the big picture, then to find out the facts.
  • I trust impressions, symbols, and metaphors more than what I actually experienced
  • Sometimes I think so much about new possibilities that I never look at how to make them a reality.

This third preference pair describes how you like to make decisions. Do you like to put more weight on objective principles and impersonal facts (Thinking) or do you put more weight on personal concerns and the people involved (Feeling)?

Thinking (T)
When I make a decision, I like to find the basic truth or principle to be applied, regardless of the specific situation involved. I like to analyze pros and cons, and then be consistent and logical in deciding. I try to be impersonal, so I won’t let my personal wishes–or other people’s wishes–influence me.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I enjoy technical and scientific fields where logic is important.
  • I notice inconsistencies.
  • I look for logical explanations or solutions to most everything.
  • I make decisions with my head and want to be fair.
  • I believe telling the truth is more important than being tactful.
  • Sometimes I miss or don’t value the “people” part of a situation.
  • I can be seen as too task-oriented, uncaring, or indifferent.

Feeling (F)
I believe I can make the best decisions by weighing what people care about and the points-of-view of persons involved in a situation. I am concerned with values and what is the best for the people involved. I like to do whatever will establish or maintain harmony. In my relationships, I appear caring, warm, and tactful.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I have a people or communications orientation.
  • I am concerned with harmony and nervous when it is missing.
  • I look for what is important to others and express concern for others.
  • I make decisions with my heart and want to be compassionate.
  • I believe being tactful is more important than telling the “cold” truth.
  • Sometimes I miss seeing or communicating the “hard truth” of situations.
  • I am sometimes experienced by others as too idealistic, mushy, or indirect.

This fourth preference pair describes how you like to live your outer life–what are the behaviors others tend to see? Do you prefer a more structured and decided lifestyle (Judging) or a more flexible and adaptable lifestyle (Perceiving)?

Judging (J)
I use my decision-making (Judging) preference (whether it is Thinking or Feeling) in my outer life. To others, I seem to prefer a planned or orderly way of life, like to have things settled and organized, feel more comfortable when decisions are made, and like to bring life under control as much as possible.

Since this pair only describes what I prefer in the outer world, I may, inside, feel flexible and open to new information (which I am).

Do not confuse Judging with judgmental, in its negative sense about people and events. They are not related.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I like to have things decided.
  • I appear to be task oriented.
  • I like to make lists of things to do.
  • I like to get my work done before playing.
  • I plan work to avoid rushing just before a deadline.
  • Sometimes I focus so much on the goal that I miss new information.

Perceiving (P)
I use my perceiving function (whether it is Sensing or Intuition) in my outer life. To others, I seem to prefer a flexible and spontaneous way of life, and I like to understand and adapt to the world rather than organize it. Others see me staying open to new experiences and information.

Since this pair only describes what I prefer in the outer world, inside I may feel very planful or decisive (which I am).

Remember, in type language perceiving means “preferring to take in information.” It does not mean being “perceptive” in the sense of having quick and accurate perceptions about people and events.

The following statements generally apply to me:

  • I like to stay open to respond to whatever happens.
  • I appear to be loose and casual. I like to keep plans to a minimum.
  • I like to approach work as play or mix work and play.
  • I work in bursts of energy.
  • I am stimulated by an approaching deadline.
  • Sometimes I stay open to new information so long I miss making decisions when they are needed.

Knowing what our personality type is can be useful when choosing or managing a career, in understanding how we learn best or how we approach teaching others, in understanding and appreciating differences in relationships with friends, partners and/or children, it can help us better recognize various stages of personal growth and development and can most importantly offer us tools to navigate each one.

 So what brain/personality type are you?

 If there is not enough information provided here please check out the following sites:

 Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

Typology Test

Myers Briggs Reports

Living Curious!!

 Breezie

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